1. Man looks at woman and smiles, eyebrows raise slightly
2. Woman looks at man and either looks down or turns away for 3-5 seconds and then looks back
3. Man approaches woman
4. At some point, the woman will touch the man either on the arm or leg
5. The man touches back mirroring her length of touch. Touching too quickly, too slowly or with an inappropriate length may ‘ruin’ the ritual.
There are many other body signs that may be included but they’ve filmed people all over the world including tribes with little societal contact and this is the base mating scenario as it pertains to body langugage. Other signs could be the man standing more upright, ‘opening’ his body to the woman and hooking his thumbs into his pockets. The last one is the strongest male ‘lure’ (do it to see why). The female could do literally thousands of things, kicking her shoe towards the male, primping, licking her lips, etc.
Both tend to mirror and even synchronize movements, but this is a component of a lot of human interactions and it is even possible to hypnotize someone doing this. The pointing of the feet, as in all body language scenarios is the biggest giveaway, denoting attraction, dislike, need to leave, etc. Attracted couples point a foot at each other and once encountering each other’s ‘bubble of space’ tend to point both feet at each other. Normally when a third person comes to talk, they would shift their feet to accommodate the person, creating a triangle with their feet. As more people are accepted into the group, the feet widen to let them in. Attacted couples often don’t do this. In a group of 3 or more, the female will forgo the linking of feet and will point one foot at the man she finds most attractive.
Woman have thousands of sexual lures for every one a man has. Men are absolutely horrible at reading physical cues but woman are innate experts at reading both the body language of males and other females.
The more you know…..